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06-Jul-2019 08:08

If you can imagine yourself dying after walking off the 10th storey of a building, you probably won’t step off the edge, will you?

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But then your mind imagines you creating an awkward silence after you say “Hi”… and then her telling everyone else in the world about what a loser and a creep you are…and then you have to see her every day still and try to avoid feeling super awkward. Imagining the worst that can happen causes you to not even try.You probably avoid a lot of parties, conversations and social situations for fear of the worst happening…all thanks to your smart mind which has made you see all the “risks.” Now, if you’ve thought something through and come up with a good reason why it would fail, it makes sense to not do it, right?I mean, why would you want to do things that are going to fail?

But then your mind imagines you creating an awkward silence after you say “Hi”… and then her telling everyone else in the world about what a loser and a creep you are…

and then you have to see her every day still and try to avoid feeling super awkward. Imagining the worst that can happen causes you to not even try.

You probably avoid a lot of parties, conversations and social situations for fear of the worst happening…

all thanks to your smart mind which has made you see all the “risks.” Now, if you’ve thought something through and come up with a good reason why it would fail, it makes sense to not do it, right?

I mean, why would you want to do things that are going to fail?

Sure, there’s some basic training you NEED to go through, but to go from being bad to good in a skill… Yet there’s a lot of socially inept people who don’t treat social skills in this way. You get better by doing, by practicing at least a few times a week.